Saturday, September 02, 2006

Thoughts on disciplining tantrums ?

I'm just hoping to get some thoughts on how to discipline temper tantrums at home as well as when other people are around. For example, when in public - do you have any words of wisdom? Or when at home but other people are around - what would you do? thanks!

3 comments:

Josh said...

This is good timing...I was just at a friend's today...they have a 1yr old and we were talking about discipline. It's amazing how many people try to do things according to the ways of the world and not according to His Word. I think the "rod" is very necessary. Sometimes when we're in public that equals my fingers pinching the back of the leg...that's been pretty effective.

My friend was reading a book by a guy name Reb Bradley called "Child Training Tips" which he highly recommended. I'll try to pick it up from half.com and let you know how it is. Maybe you can do a search online for him and find some info from his teaching.

Best advice from me is to be firm and be consistent in discipline. I know it's not always easy :)

Hope this helps!

Gina Marie said...

I think it depends sometimes on the reason for the tantrum. Is she tired? Are you asking too much? (I try to give my kids more grace when I'm dragging them to the 5th store). But I think the more you deal with it at home, the less of an issue it is in public.

Be consistent and don't give in to the pressure of other people watching. :)

Gina Marie said...

Tammy, you asked on my blog about the hungry ghosts. I never heard about it while I lived there, but I would think it would be celebrated by some, because it seems more superstitious than religious. I would ask about it if I were you - could start some interesting conversations.